~pre-engagement~

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alhamdullillah semuanya bejalan lancar =)...pre- engagement a.k.a merisik telah selamat berlansung pada 15.10.2011... walaupun merisik je tp bedebor tu mcm nk akad nikah huhu nikah nnt xtau la cne kn gulp! so next coming event is the engagement la of coz...btw my actual plan was not like wht happened in real life...dlu igtkan xnk merisik or betunang trus nk kawen je...tp since both of us anak sulung n he insisted to follow the steps so i ikutkan aje la ....pihak lelaki

brought 4 things so kmi bls 5 ...dat time telah ditetapkan wang hantaran/belanja hangus and also mas kawin...not really agreed but i leave it to my family...mls nk msk cmpur...=p And for engagement so far dh about 50-60% preparation completed tgl sket2 je lg...serabut jgk byk sgt event ni pening kepala cheq....huhu...

engagement preparation:

1. Baju and accessories

For baju i bought from jakel ..shiffon beaded top (peach orange) and kain die shiffon kosong (peach orange) ....at first kakak yg attended i tu ckp xd kaler yg sma cm shiffon beaded tu tp die cari2 alhamdulillah ade...for lining it just satin cream colour so that effect of light peach colour tu lg terserlah gituww!=p tht lady asked my to buy full set tp i xnk sbb tkt nmpk meriah sgt i want it to besimple but yet elegant so kain i nk kosong...die kire total rm400 xtermasuk baju lelaki..actly i mmg xnk pun bju lelaki sbb xnk my partner pkai bju melayu ..die pkai kemaja je nnt tp entah cm mane baik hati sgt kakak tu die nk 2 meter shiffon beaded , 3 meter shiffon plain, 4 meter satin and 5 meter satin for man...with only rm350 !!! huhu alhamdullilah la kn rezeki actual prize utk 1 set laki pmpuan shiffon beaded to rm450-500 ..

2. Tailoring

About 1 month or 2 after i bought the kain i trus g anta kt butik First Impression jalan tar..i ckp i nk wt mcm ni mcm ni n she agreed la (means my imagination not bad ha?=p) die charge for rm350 at first tp i mintak kurang so die bg rm300 ..ok la kot sbb shiffon beaded ni ssh nk potong...sketch die mcm ni..

siap on october..and yes i dah pegi amk ..tp xnk post picture tu nnt basi hek3!

3. Hantaran

As for hantaran i pilih jemari kreatif ..b4 dis ade tnya kt merisik gallery, and butik bridal like puteris putrajaya and shajaratul design tp jemari kreatif yg paling melekat di hati hehe..owner die kak siti ..is very nice person n easy to deal with...i sgt kagum dgn kerja2 die kemas cntik and up-to-date plus die tau ape yg cantik utk setiap hantaran...both side tmpah kt sna ..haha ade org myb akn ckp xaci ke ape but for me lets change the culture ...price die ok la rm70 for 1 dulang..mule igt nk pilih yg grand tp bile pikir balik baik pilih yg serderhana je sbb ni br bertunang n nnt kawen ade barang hantaran lg..can u imagine spela yg wt adat2 ni bagai kn?menyusahkan je rs ..kalo dlm islam xperlu pun cm tu just bg ala kadar je...kalo org kita buat mcm tu nnt ade la mulut2 yg ckp sesedap rasa kn ..hmmm..ssh nk ubah mentality org melayu..

Barang2 hantaran pula xbyk just 7 n 9 je as shown in the list below:

Hantaran dari pihak lelaki

1. Sirih junjung

2. Cincin

3. Kebaya

4. Body shop set

5. Cup cake

6. Chocs (i request for ferrero rocher;P)

7. Buah-buahan

Hantaran dari pihak perempuan

1. Sirih Junjung

2. Kemaja n tie

3. Sejadah

4. Al-quran

5. Body shop set

6. Kek

7. Chocs

8. Cup cakes

9. Buah buahan

4. Mini pelamin

Ok since ipoh xbyk bridal yg up-to-date ade yg up-to-date tp mahal gile...hello i dont want to waste more than 0.5k for mini dais?G srvey sna sni last2 amik kt bridal Binari dekat simpang pulai, Ipoh..they charge rm400 using my design o

k la tu drpda 5rts lebih cm x logik lansung huhu dh la x mesra pelanggan i mean kdai yg mahal tu la..i want something like this or i can exactly like this hehe

5. Gooddie bag

ha dis part sgt interesting...1st plan nk order from any kdai kad kawen yg also wt paperbag utk org kawen bcoz i love custom made things xnk yg ordinary bkn xnk sma ngn org lain or low classke ape just utk create smthing different from other people...tnya kt kadlestari price for paperbag with custom made design sume rm1++ yg palig murah pon rm1 ..nk beli 250-300 pieces je xkn nk bazirkan dat such amount utk gooddie bag huhu tht is really not me! then wht i do? i google sna sni..lps tu bekenan kt brown paperbag..TAPI...kt mane nk cari paperbag ni?my bff ade bg few links to someblog and ade org c

kp kt bandar baru bangi kedai YUMMIES ade jual..kt puchong bndar puteri pun ade jual, then kat WAKIM, jln raja bot pun ade...i pegi yummies and found out brown paperbag die sebijik cm org letak karipap or pisang goreng..easily get wet memangla cm tu sbb yummies tu kedai jual brg2 buat kek n bakery logik la jual brown pa

perbag jenis cm tu kn...yg peliknya tnya kt salesgirl 2 ade x brownpaper bag? sekor pun xtau jenuh la explain huhu then i decided to go to wakim sbb wakim ni jual all sorts of plstic container n ade provide brownpaperbag yg ade tali siap..but i prefer yg xd tali sbb nk buat deco cm dlm pic ni ..=)

cute kn?smart pun ye jgk..wtpe nk bg mahal2 sbb nnt org cmpak tong sampah jgk..kalo knduri kawen tu xpela bg yg nice to c nice to hold kn ni just a simple engagement so better beli yg murah n of coz lovely! then i plan utk letak sticker kt tgh2 paperbag 2..for sticker i used FASTPRINT utk buatkn sticker 2 ..it cost 30sen for each 10cm x 5cm rectangular sticker...not bad la fastprint ni cpt jgk die wt keje..within 1 week dh siap..

Hmm ape lg ek...yg lain2 cm barang2 hantaran tu i beli ikut kemampuan je branding ni i xbpe ikut sgt asalkan presentable kt ats dulang hntaran tu dh ckup ok dh...utk kawen nnt myb la will go for something u never have..so it will be much appreciated..kn?=)) Ha utk cupcakes my tok sedara nk sponsor red velvet with cream cheese ..alhmdllh ade org nk sponsor from http://rohayabakery.blogspot.com/ ..tudung plak...hmm i nk cari shiffon tp jmpe lg inner dh ade org sponsor..my auntie pearlhaya dealer nk sponsor http://ayshacollection.blogspot.com ..im thnkful to ALLAH sbb ade yg sudi nk sponsor...huhu may ALLAH bless them all...ok next preparation i will update again later.... C u..